We’ve been married 12 years, 2 kids ages 8 and 6. I love her very much. I think she may be feeling unattractive/unloved by my lack of sexual interest based on a few things I’ve been able to find online this morning. I just don’t feel the need to do it as often as she does. Her demands and pressure are making me feel pressured and it seems like a chore. Just like I like to ride my new motorcycle, I wouldn’t want to ride it 2 hours a day…but maybe a few days a week for 30-45 minutes or so. Too much of a good thing at least in my case, isn’t good, it cheapens it for me, and yes, it feels like work if asked to do it too much, just like the motorcycle analogy. But for her, she really wants it once a day or preferably more. I told her maybe cause I’m getting older at 34 years old, I dunno. She’s 35, attractive, good build, so that’s not an issue. She says I’m still young enough, and that shouldn’t be a prob. I’m not nearly as easily aroused as I used to be. After a blowout on the subject. I need help in the form of potential solutions. Other than the obvious ‘have more sex’ thing…I was thinking of scheduling sex. Our time together in the eve’s is plagued with noisy kids, tv, a small condo. Maybe if we make a “date” to do the deed, it will give me time to mentally psyche myself up for it. Other thoughts? Maybe Cialis or Levitra? Costs on those? Covered by insurance? I’ve heard bad thing about viagra. I think we need to compromise at 3-5 times a week. Help Please!
Posts Tagged ‘Wife’
if a husband and ex wife own a property he pays mortgage can she rent without his signature?
28
Apr
she is going to live with future husband wants the rent money but ex is on the deeds, no children involved and not a buy to let mortgage
My wife rented a car, and now needs it towed. Will our personal auto insurance policy cover the tow?
08
Apr
We have towing on our policy. We live in TX.
PS. The rental car company will provide a tow, at a fee through their roadside assistance program. We have to get it towed like 50 miles. Any clue how much a tow like this would cost?
difference of opinions, my wife wants to remortgage our 3 bed semi?
25
Mar
to enable us to add a garage to the side, is this a good idea long term will it add more value, we need five thousand to go ahead.